Get Out of Your Comfort Zone and Into Your Power: Why Boudoir is the Ultimate Confidence Boost
We all have that cozy comfort zone. It’s like your favorite pair of sweatpants-safe, familiar and easy to hang out in. But guess what? Real growth happens when you decide to trade those sweatpants for something a little more daring.
Trying new things can feel scary. Maybe it’s speaking up at work, trying sushi for the first time or saying yes to a last-minute road trip. Or maybe it’s booking a boudoir session.
Now, boudoir is not your average photoshoot. It’s an experience that pushes you out of your bubble and puts you in the spotlight-literally. You get to rock lingerie or whatever makes you feel sexy, have your hair and makeup done like a queen and step in front of the camera to celebrate the one and only you.
Sure, it might feel a little vulnerable at first. But here’s the secret: it’s also wildly freeing. Boudoir invites you to rewrite the story you tell yourself when you look in the mirror. It’s about loving every curve, every line, every inch of your story.
If you’re ready to do something just for you, something that will light up your confidence and maybe even surprise you—this is it. Boudoir is more than photos. It’s a power move. A love letter to yourself. And the best kind of glow-up you’ll ever have.
So why not shake things up? Step out of those sweatpants and into your power. You might just fall in love with yourself all over again.
The Self Love Project “LIMITED EDITION” series
When did we learn to judge our bodies and compare ourselves to others? Was it through age, relationships, society, etc.? It's time we embrace and value our bodies for everything they are and everything they've been through. Ultimately, our bodies are our most precious possession. The Self Love Project was created to eradicate all the negative and harmful thoughts we've told ourselves and have been told by others.
Boudoir Photography goes beyond just taking pretty pictures in lingerie. It's about showing clients a fresh perspective and reshaping their self-image.
Much Love
xoxo
The Self Love Project
#Selflovebabes
When were we taught to criticize our bodies and compare ourselves to everyone else? Was it a certain age, relationships, society, etc.
It’s time we learn to love and appreciate our bodies for everything that they are and everything they’ve been through. In the end your body is all you have.
The Self Love Project was created to demolish all the bad, negative and worthless thoughts we’ve told ourselves and have been told by others.
During this group event participants demolished these words of hate by burning the paper that held these negative words.
Each participant also received a solo experience where they wrote themselves a love letter that we turned into artwork during their photo shoot! (These images can be found on separate blog posts)
Boudoir Photography is so much more than pretty pictures in lingerie. It’s capturing clients in a new light and reprogramming the self image they have of themselves.
Much Love
xoxo
Love, Self
Recently we started our first series of The Self-Love Project “love the skin you’re in” edition. We asked clients to write themselves a love letter and then turned it into art. This project is intended to break down the barriers that society has taught us.
We are all perfectly imperfect. It’s time we find ourselves and accept our bodies as they are today!
xo,
Sheri
Boho Babes
Our most recent group empowerment photo event was an evening of empowerment, connecting with other badass babes and creating artwork of an unforgettable experience!!!!
Can you believe these 7 babes had just met each other for the first time right before this event started?!
Why NOT to do a Boudoir Shoot
Top excuses I hear from clients for not booking a Boudoir Experience.
As a Boudoir Photographer I have heard every excuse for not booking a session. Look. I completely understand not feeling comfortable in front of the camera (why do you think I have spend my entire life behind it, lol!). There are many reasons clients choose to book a Boudoir Experience. In this article I will break down the top 5 excuses I hear from clients on what is holding them back from booking their life changing, confidence boosting Boudoir Experience.
1- I need to lose weight first.
This is the number one reason that is holding clients back from having a life changing Boudoir Experience, “I need to lose weight first.” Here’s the thing, your shoot has to do with SO MUCH more than the shape of your body. I want to show you HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE TODAY, not after you lose XX pounds. You are not defined by your dimensions, so do not allow it to keep you from seeing your true beauty. YOU DO NOT NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT TO FEEL SEXY AND BEAUTIFUL!
2- I’m too old.
This is NOT an excuse, this is only a reason to CELEBRATE your beautiful, badass self! I have photographed women of ALL AGES.
3-I just don’t have the money to spend on photos right now.
I understand. Everyone is on a budget, but you cannot look at this as just getting some photos. This is an investment in your self-confidence and well-being. Where else can you go, have a 5 hour experience and walk away feeling completely different about yourself?
Plus-I offer pre-payment installment plans (Boudie Bank) that are designed to work for your budget.
4-I don’t have anyone to give the images to.
Giving the gift of boudoir to a special someone is pretty awesome. But, What about giving the gift of Boudoir to YOURSELF? A Boudoir Experience is designed to make you feel beautiful, confident and sexy in your own skin. Can you think of a better gift to give yourself than that?
5-I don’t look as sexy as your other clients you share images of.
STOP! Yes you do! Everyone has features about them that make them special and unique in their own way.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BEING SEXY YOU ALREADY ARE!
I will pose you from your head to your toes so that you can see what I see in you.